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31 Weeks

I’m basically to the point in this pregnancy where I feel like if I bend over too far or too fast, this baby is just going to shoot right out of me. I feel  like a turtle on it’s back any and every time I sit or lay down. I sit there wobbling ineffectively for a few seconds until I can get enough leverage to actually move.

Next week, I start my twice weekly OB visits. Since this is a high-risk pregnancy due to my MTHFR gene mutation/ high clot risk PLUS my history of preterm labor, I’ll receive an ultrasound and an NST every week to make sure Ford is growing and thriving. So far, he is looking great (his head measures a week ahead of the rest of him… typical of my boys!!). I’m definitely having more and more Braxton Hicks, some of which are uncomfortable, but there still isn’t a pattern to them, which is a good thing. Generally if I drink a lot of water and rest, they subside. I tend to work myself to death in every area of life (hyper-productivity is a bit of a curse sometimes), so I really have to remind myself to take it easy and chill out.

Here’s my little pregnancy survey for this week:

How far along? 31 weeks

Total weight gain/loss: 20 pounds. I may actually stay within the 25 pound range, which is what I hoped for this time.

Maternity clothes? Obviously. Have you seen my stomach?

Sleep: Getting worse. I get up at least once to pee, and I have the most bizarre and vivid dreams. It doesn’t make for a super restful night. Plus, yay for my back hurting all the time.

Best moment(s) this week: Hanging out with my husband. We had a very off week last week with our schedules and three Christmas parties (that we attended sans spouses)- we didn’t spend any time alone together! It’s been nice to see his face again and cuddle on the couch together in the evenings.

Movement: Constant.

Food cravings: Chocolate and peanut butter. You guys, Trader Joes Chocolate Peanut Butter Salted Caramel Truffles. I can’t even with the deliciousness in that bag. I pretended that one bag is a single serving, and you should do the same thing. Holy moly.

Gender: Boy

Labor Signs: Just Braxton Hicks thus far. I’m assuming they’ll check my cervix next week with my history of preterm labor and these contractions, so hopefully that will yield some good news (i.e.: not dilated).

Belly Button in or out? As previously discussed, the belly button situation is extreme.

What I miss: Good solid sleep.

What I am looking forward to: Getting Ford’s crib set up, and I am starting to get really excited about all of the newborn things like nursing, baby cuddles and that baby smell. Also, I just got a book on Hypnobirthing and am excited to dig into that method a bit more. If you have experience with that, let me know!! I’m also re-reading all of my birth books, and am currently halfway into “Ina May’s Guide to Childbirth.”

Weekly Wisdom: Take a break more often than you feel like you need one. Chances are, you need more than you think you do!

Milestones: I’m pretty sure I’m starting to waddle. If that isn’t a sucky milestone, I don’t know what is.

Belly pic at 31 weeks and 2 days:


I came home the day I took this picture and my amazing husband told me “Babe, you look hot.” I happily repliedl, “aw, thanks, babe, that was so sweet!” He’s so smart of a man, he knows just what to say nowadays. Then Brody comes over and sweetly says, “Aw, Mommy. Look at your beautiful scarf! You look like a snowman!!”

Gee, thanks, child of mine. Trevor told him, “Brody, one day you’ll learn the things NOT to say to women!”

And because I love them to pieces (even though half of them thinks I look like a huge snowman), here are some pictures with the biggest boys, too:

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That crooked grin on Knox is identical to his father’s. It’s part of what still makes me melt when I look at Trevor, so needless to say, Knox can basically do no wrong when he smiles that way! And cutie pie Brody never ceases to have a silly expression on his face (even with a busted up nose!). Happy Friday, friends!

23-and-a-half weeks along

I figured I should do a little update on our newest boy, for posterity’s sake. I had an appointment on Tuesday, and my doctor said I’m measuring exactly right and Ford looks great. Music to my ears. Also, my next appointment will be the Glucola appointment, and my first weekly growth ultrasound. Since I’m on Lovenox and have a higher clot risk, they’ll do an ultrasound every week and monitor Ford with the NST twice a week. Yes, I will be at the OB’s office for my entire life. I’ll do what I need to for this boy, so you won’t hear any complaining from me!

How far along? 23 weeks

Total weight gain/loss: Ten pounds. I’m pretty happy with that amount, and I feel way better than I did my previous two pregnancies at this point.

Maternity clothes? Absolutely. Elastic is a must at this point.

Sleep: My head hits the pillow at 9:30, and I am GONE. I am so sleepy in the evenings, I feel like I can barely function. I would love to start waking up early to do my devotion for the day when the house is quiet, but my word, I love my sleep right now.

Best moment(s) this week: The Allume conference last week was amazing. Also, it was so much fun to finish up Ford’s dresser and be able to actually pack away his sweet little clothes. Thanks to some generous friends, Ford may end up with more clothes than his brothers had!

Movement: All the time! I don’t remember Knox and Brody being this active at this stage of pregnant, but Ford is one wiggly baby! I love it, baby movement is just the best.

Food cravings: Still Mexican food and potatoes. I’m trying to lay off as much unhealthy stuff and lean  more Paleo in what I’m eating (this doesn’t always work).

Gender: Boy

Labor Signs: No, and I’m so glad. I remember vividly that I started having tons of contractions with Knox at 24 weeks- it was on my birthday, and I was super sick with some sinus/cough thing. I remember crying my eyes out because I was so worried and felt so terrible. My birthday is this Friday, and for my gift, I’d love zero contractions.

Belly Button in or out? Out. So, so out.

What I miss: I really miss bread. It’s just so good. And real pizza with fluffy gluten-filled crust. I heart gluten, but it isn’t a mutual love.

What I am looking forward to: Getting some of the big baby stuff purchased and set up- that always makes it feel more real. Also, pretty sure our 4D ultrasound will be in the next month-ish, which will be so much fun.

Weekly Wisdom: Don’t worry, be happy.

Milestones: Getting Ford’s dresser filled with tiny clothes. Also, viability day (24 weeks) is this Sunday!

The best part of these pictures is Brody- the first one, he is pushing a Lara Bar into my stomach because he wants me to “eat your breakfast, Mommy!!” The second one, I don’t know, it makes me laugh!

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17 Weeks

I’m 17 weeks pregnant this week, and I am getting more and more excited about this third baby boy. Here’s my every-so-often pregnancy survey for your viewing pleasure:

How far along? 17 weeks

Total weight gain/loss: Still just one pound. I don’t know how. I eat a lot, but again, not snacking and eating pretty clean and no gluten. We’ll see how things look when I go back to the doctor in two weeks!

Maternity clothes? Yes. Only maternity pants at this point, and my regular shirts are getting a bit short. Still wearing a few tunic-style shirts with no problem.

Sleep: Much better than a few weeks ago. I am able to sleep pretty solid, but I do wake up once to go to the bathroom. My main complaint with sleep is that a certain three year-old is still wandering into our room at night and sneaking into our bed. We started making him a pallet on the floor for when he does that, but lately, he’s gotten very stealthy and sneaks into our bed without waking us up… until 3 a.m. when the kicks and swats begin.

Best moment(s) this week: 1) Starting to feel baby movement- it’s still super light but so awesome. 2) I got a call yesterday from my OB’s office saying that our second genetic screen came back normal on Ford, which is always nice to hear (the first was also normal). 3) Also (not baby-related, but still good), my brother came in town this weekend from Florida and came to visit. We had dinner with he and my sister on Sunday at our house, which was so nice- Knox and Brody were THRILLED to have their aunt and uncle over to play!

Movement: Yes! Little flutters still, looking forward to those bigger movements and kicks.

Food cravings: Potatoes- I want Greek potatoes a lot, and I have been craving Chick-fil-a hash browns (and partaking a little too frequently… like I say, I am pretty sure the weight gain is coming soon!). Also tea- I only drink water, normally, but I’ve been having myself a half sweet/half unsweet tea in the morning from Chick-fil-a, and it’s pretty glorious. I don’t feel too badly since I have totally cut coffee… I figure a little vice is good for me. :)

Gender: Baby boy! So excited for this third guy to join the family- we love having boys.

Labor Signs: No thank you. I did have my first 17P injection this past week (for preterm labor prevention). I definitely didn’t miss them with that massive needle. The shot itself was fine, but afterwards I started to feel a little woozy. Normally, they tell you to get up and walk around so the medicine can disperse, but I had to sit down and do a ton of paperwork for the shots. I felt a little green and had to lay down (on the floor… of my office… where the nurse is coming to give me the injections) for five minutes. I was fine after that, but yay for me always having a weird vaso vagal reaction to things!

Belly Button in or out? Out. That didn’t take long.

What I miss: Sandwiches and sleeping on my stomach.

What I am looking forward to: Anatomy scan in two weeks and collecting baby things

Weekly Wisdom: Take your time- babies take a long time to come, which gives you a long time to prepare. Don’t try to do everything at once!

Milestones: Movement beginning!

And some belly pictures from this week featuring Knox hugging and kissing Ford. Love him so much.

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Brody’s Birth Story

I was supposed to go in for my 37 week visit on Tuesday, but knowing that if I was more progressed they’d be sending me to the hospital, I called Monday morning to see who was on-call Monday and Tuesday. As it turned out, my doctor was on-call Monday, so I asked if I could switch my appointment to one day earlier- I could! So, I rushed to grab a shower and get my stuff together before heading over to the doctor’s office. Knowing I *may* be having a baby that day, it was so hard for me to say good-bye to Knox! I could barely give him a quick hug and kiss before I started to tear up, but luckily I made it outside before I really cried! Trevor had been planning on going to my Tuesday appointment with me, but since this was a last-minute change, he stayed behind with Knox, knowing I would call him with any news. All along, we had hoped Brody would be born on February 13th because it was Trevor’s Pop’s birthday. Brody’s middle name, Howell, comes from his grandparents, so we thought that would be so special. We were excited to know that it may be a very real possibility!

I got to the doctor’s office at about 10:30 and waited for almost an hour before being taken back because they were so busy. My doctor had to run next door to the hospital for a delivery, so their P.A. saw me. She knew the gist- I had been 4cm/ 80% effaced/ -2 station just one week prior, and if I had progressed, Dr. L was not comfortable with sending me home, seeing as how fast I was progressing with no real contractions to speak of and was worried I’d labor extremely fast. The P.A. checked me and said she’d call me a “loose 4, but could be easily stretched.” Knowing that everyone’s scale of dilation varies slightly, we still wanted to know what Dr. L thought, and it turned out, she had just gotten back and wanted to check me herself.

She explained that there was still a possibility for some respiratory issues for babies born between 37 and 38 weeks, so we needed to be sure I was really ready before just deciding to go ahead and deliver- we needed concrete proof of progression! Well, I started to have a contraction as she checked me, and she was surprised at how strong it was, especially considering that was a “normal” one that didn’t even phase me. She said that with the contraction, my bag of water was bulging and trying to funnel out through the dilated cervix. She said that I wouldn’t be able to last long at all without my water breaking on it’s own at that rate, that I was definitely 5cm and ready to have a baby! She called for a wheelchair, so I went ahead and called Trevor to let him know what was going on. They wouldn’t let me go back to the car for my hospital bag so I had to give Trevor instructions on where to find the car when he arrived.

A medical assistant wheeled me over to Labor and Delivery, we actually beat my nurse’s phone call over there, so they weren’t even expecting me yet- luckily she called as soon as we finished explaining the situation. By this time, it was around noon. They went ahead and got me set up in a L&D room, I put on the super sexy backless gown, they started my IV and I met my nurses. I had two at first, but I think I must have set a record for amount of nurses in the shortest period of time! They all kept getting called into surgeries and leaving me with someone new! Luckily, they were all very nice. Trevor arrived soon after I got set-up, probably around 12:30. My mom got there around 1 with lunch for Trevor since he rushed out the door without eating breakfast or lunch and hung out with us until my doctor arrived.

Dr. L arrived around 1:30 pm to break my water. She used the small point they attach to their finger instead of that crazy long crochet needle. It started a slow leak, then it gushed and gushed and gushed what felt like hot jucuzzi water all over the place. I soaked through so many pads and towels, it was ridiculous! When I was in labor with Knox, I was in instantaneous agony the second they broke my water because his head was so low, but Brody was higher up, so thankfully that wasn’t the case this time. However, knowing that it only took hours from the time my water was broken with Knox to delivery, they were already talking epidural. I felt odd ordering an epidural before I was in pain, but “luckily” for me, my contractions got painful as the anesthesiologist got there to administer the epi. Trevor had to leave for that part, but my sweet doula, Joan, who had arrived around 2:00 had me hug her and talked me through it. This was at 2:20 p.m. Epidurals definitely hurt, but I’d rather feel that than the baby coming out! I could feel the numbing shot, and I could feel the novocaine filling the space around my spine which was an extremely odd and off-putting sensation. Luckily, it numbed up after that. After the epidural was in, my doctor came back to check me at 2:47 (my doula wrote all this down!) and I had not changed at all. She then went to go to a c-section and said she’d check on me when she got finished.

At this point, my contractions were very regular and coming at every minute to minute and a half. I just closed my eyes and relaxed for this period of time. At first, I could feel all of my contractions in my lower abdomen, but they upped the dose on the epidural and had me roll around a bit and it evened out. I was so relaxed, it felt like I had spent the day at the spa or something (granted receiving an epidural isn’t as pleasant as a massage, but still). I could still move my legs around, my whole lower body just felt kind of foggy. I lay there with my eyes closed listening to Food Network and eating ice chips randomly. Not quite two hours passed and Dr. L came back in at 4:33 pm to check me again. She said “Well, my friend, you’re complete and baby is at +2 station. You’re ready!” Wow, that was fast! They got the room ready to deliver and Trevor went to go tell my mom and siblings what was going on (his parents were at our house with Knox). Dr. L was going to run to security for a new ID tag before delivery, but she came back in about one minute because she was scared I’d deliver before she got back! So, once everything was set-up, I waited for a contraction and started pushing. After two pushes, Brody’s head was visible and staying put- she said that he had a lot of hair and asked Trevor if he wanted to look. He did and said “Whoa!” I don’t know why, but they way he said it struck me as so funny, I bursted out laughing in the middle of my push. I couldn’t get it together and laughed through another push. Dr. L said “Well, this is a new one for me. I’ve never seen a baby laughed out before!” Just a couple more pushes and Brody’s head was out and I felt the doctor pull the rest of him along.

Brody Howell was born at 4:48 pm after four and a half hours of labor (from the time I arrived to the hospital… only three since my water was broken) and not even seven minutes of pushing!

The second I saw that wet little vernix-covered baby, I lost it. I just sobbed and wondered why cutting the cord was taking so long- I wanted my hands on this boy! Apparently my cord was “textbook” and beautiful-nice and long and very thick- it squirted when Trevor cut it, which he thought was quite disgusting, ha ha! Finally, they put Brody on my chest and I was immediately smitten with my newest boy.

He let out a short cry after birth, but then the nurse kept having to force him to cry by messing with his feet- he was so content! After cuddling with him for a few minutes, they carried him to the warmer to check his vitals and weigh him.

He weighed 7 pounds and 10 ounces and we later found out that he was 19.25 inches long.

They brought him back over to me and I was able to nurse him right away while the doctor repaired a small “not quite first degree repair.” This was much easier to deal with than the 2nd degree tear I sported after Knox! I think it only required one stitch. Brody did a great job breast feeding right away, and we got to keep him for about an hour to ourselves. Trevor held him, too, and was loving being the father of two boys immediately. My family came in for a few minutes to see him before he and Trevor went to the nursery for all of that typical newborn “stuff.” Brody didn’t even cry in the nursery, other than when they gave him the Vitamin K shot.

Some of the best news for us was that he needed ZERO NICU time! It was like a whole new world having our sweet boy be able to room-in with us in the hospital. I definitely didn’t get any sleep to speak of between constant feedings and the endless stream of nurses into our room at all hours to draw blood, mash on my stomach (my gosh, that is by far the worst and most painful part of the entire process!!), take vitals on Brody and I and to dole out fabulous pain medication. I think I got about two hours of sleep (maybe) the first day and four hours the second, but I wouldn’t have had it any other way!

We checked out today after a two-night stay, and are thrilled to be at home with both of our boys! I’ll update soon on Knox and Brody’s first meeting. Until then, I’m going to try to get some sleep and enjoy this sweet baby! I feel so incredibly blessed- God has done amazing things for us, and I am beyond grateful!

Here are some pictures of Brody’s birthday:

Trevor holding Brody for the first time:

My doula, Joan, and I (and Brody breast feeding)

He’s here!!!

Brody Howell was born on Monday, February 13 at 4:48 pm! He weighed 7 pounds 10 ounces and was 19.25 inches long. He is just perfect and totally healthy, and we actually just got back home from the hospital this afternoon. It was a whole different world this time around, not having to stay in the NICU! He roomed-in with us the whole time and is already doing an amazing job breast-feeding. I will be back with Brody’s birth story, soon, hopefully tomorrow, but I have got to get some sleep first! Until then, here are a few pictures of our newest, sweet little guy! And did I mention the kid has some serious cheeks?? :)

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